If you were standing outside the window of your marriage relationship, what would you see? Is it obvious that you love and care for your spouse? Are you kind and patient or are you negative and critical?
When stress hits it’s easy to take out frustrations on the ones closest to you. Often times that person is our spouse. As humans we tend to see the negatives first which makes being positive more difficult especially if we are under stress!
What do we do to help? We take more notice of what we are saying and doing in our relationship! Before we speak or act ask would God be disappointed in me if I did that, or better would I want someone to do that to me? Being mindful of what you say and do can help you make positive changes! So the question is what do you want to see in your marriage relationship?